Heartbreak ranks number one in the list of most painful experiences. Even more painstaking are those relationship dilemmas which either upsets you or make you angry. It is, of course, very brave of you to acknowledge the fact that there is something wrong with your relationship, rather than sweeping it under the carpet, and pretending that all is well. Once you have realized and accepted this, you can move on to remedying it, and we at astroYogi, are always there to help. At your end, you could to do the following-
Self-Introspection- Instead of starting the blame game, put yourself in your partner’s shoes and see from his/her point of view. Have you been acting selfish and demanding ‘conditional’ love?-the type where you will love more if your partner shows love and will ignore if ignored? Sit down and talk to him/her to find out what you both want from the relationship.
2) Counselling-Its best if you go together, but if one is not willing, the other can go. Many a times, speaking to a common friend may also help to sort out many issues as it is easier to confide in someone you already know and trust. Many a times a third perspective is needed to judge and anlyse a situation. If family and friends intervention is not helping then you should seek profesional aid.
3) Check your moods- Make an attempt to make yourself loveable. Its possible that time and circumstances have changed your temperament and your partner does not know how to handle that.
4) Prioritize your life- Impulsive decisions and reactions may take a toll on your relationship. You must have a clear picture of your priorities in life. If your relationship is the most important thing in your life then it should be handled with utmost care and some compromises should be done.
6) Astrological compatibility- Astrology can say a lot about one’s personality traits, behavioral pattern and destiny. An expert astrologer can match a couple's birth charts to analyze their compatibility. Vedic astrologers matches 8 Kootas in a couple’s horoscope which are given different weightage or points called Gunas. A couple is found compatible if at least 18 Gunas are matching out of the total 36.
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