Relationships are not prefect. They require work. You need to compromise, be understanding of your partner’s feelings, and be respectful of their values and beliefs. You should respect each other and value each other as equals in the relationship.
Everybody makes mistakes every now and then. But there are certain ‘mistakes’ that you should not take for granted in a relationship. There are certain signs that your relationship may be more toxic, as opposed to being healthy and loving. At times, toxic signs can be rooted in stress and a rough patch in the relationship. But if they persist, it may be time for you to rethink your relationship.
Here are some toxic signs you should be wary about:
The most serious warning signs include any form of violence, abuse or harassment. Even a single instance should be enough for you both to take time off to analyse your situation. There are other, more subtle signs as well. These include being unhappy, or angry, or even feeling constantly jealous. These are signs that the relationship may not be moving in the right direction.
It is important to remember that spending time with your partner should not make you feel uncomfortable. If you start feeling distant from them, or feel like you both are not being able to communicate honestly, then it could mean that something is amiss in your relationship. You should also look out for some overt behaviours like avoiding each other intentionally, constantly fighting, and decrease in intimacy.
Sometimes, toxic signs can influence your mental peace as well. If your partner does not take responsibility for anything, or tends to be controlling all the time, or if you are the one who always has to compromise, then you two may want to reassess where you both stand in the relationship. If you feel that you cannot be yourself around your partner, or if you are losing who you used to be before you both got together, if you feel like you are always ‘on edge’, having to walk on eggshells around them; then you should have a serious conversation with your partner and figure out the future of such a relationship.
Many times, relationships turn sour, not because you or your partner is at fault. There could be external factors at play, a significant one being your astrological compatibility. What some of you may not know is that, your personalities, traits, ambitions, and desires in life are greatly influenced by the planetary positions at the time of your birth. This influence also extends to your compatibility with others, and their astrological signs. This is where Kundli matching comes into play. Kundli matching is considered a base point, especially in India, where families consult astrologers to match and analyse how compatible two people are likely to be. These astrologers read birth charts to predict how loving and successful the relationship will be.
Get your horoscopes/Kundli matched by India’s best astrologers on Astroyogi to see your compatibility before beginning a relationship. For those of you already in a relationship, if you feel unhappy, or if the relationship is becoming stressful, you can get your compatibility checked. Our expert astrologers can also suggest the area in your personality that may need working on. After all, it takes two to tango!